Carol Greco lost a sister to domestic violence five years ago.

Greco, of Federal Way, told a reporter her story about her sister after Greco attended a law enforcement rally for domestic violence awareness month last week outside of the Norm Maleng Regional Justice Center in Kent.

Judiann Hughes, 31, was shot to death by her husband, Lathan Hughes, on May 6, 2004, at their Spanaway home. Later that night, Lathan Hughes dropped off their three children at a relative’s home. A few hours later, he shot and killed himself in front of Tukwila Police officers in an empty parking lot near the Southcenter Mall.

“That was a nightmare and it still continues,” Greco said. “Those kids are living without their parents.”

The couple had been together 11 years and married for seven years. Greco and two other sisters were unaware of the relationship problems at their sister’s home.

“She hid it,” said Joanne Greco, of Federal Way, one of three sisters of Hughes who attended the rally.

Lori Haeseler, of Renton, the third sister, is raising the three children of Hughes. The children are ages 17, 15 and 13.

In remembrance of Hughes and to help others, the sisters will hold their third annual Skate to Stop Domestic Violence from 5-7 p.m. Saturday at the Auburn Skate Connection, 1825 Howard Road.

Participants can skate and rent skates for free. All donations will be given to the Auburn Domestic Violence Task Force. For more information, call 253-833-4990.

“Our sister was a champion roller skater,” Carol Greco said. “That’s why we hold it at a skate rink.”

The Auburn Domestic Violence Task Force sponsored the rally last Friday to recognize October as Domestic Violence Awareness month.

King County Sheriff’s Office deputies and police officers from Kent, Auburn, Federal Way, Tukwila, Maple Valley and the Port of Seattle attended the rally.

The deputies and officers lined up their cars along the sidewalk on Fourth Avenue in front of the Regional Justice Center to show their support to help stop domestic violence.

“We have made a lot of progress, but there still is a long ways to go,” said King County Sheriff Sue Rahr, who spoke at the rally. “It’s important to remind ourselves that it took a lot of work to get here, but we can’t let up even with tight budgets.”

Rahr told about how when she started as a King County deputy in 1979 there was no training on how to handle domestic violence cases and no domestic violence laws or advocacy groups.

“The only real goal was to separate the two for the night,” said Rahr, who added officers now follow strict protocols on how to handle domestic violence cases.

Change started in the 1980s with state laws to help protect the victim, get help for the victim and put the abuser in jail.

“But we have only treated the symptoms of domestic violence,” King County Prosecutor Dan Satterberg said at the rally. “We have a long way to go to cure domestic violence.”

Satterberg presented the 13th Annual Norm Maleng Law Enforcement Award to three officers at the rally in recognition of their efforts to combat domestic violence.

The three officers included detective Kathy Bumpus of the Des Moines Police and Sgt. Michael Meyers and Sgt. Barclay Pierson of the King County Department of Adult and Juvenile Detention.

Bumpus was honored for her dedication to ensure the safety of domestic violence victims and their children and to stop the generational spread of the cycle of violence.

Meyers and Pierson were honored for their development of a system to track and record all outgoing telephone calls by inmates.

The development of the phone-recording system has helped catch inmate offenders violating court orders and led to early guilty pleas of witness tampering, order violations and other crimes.

For more information about domestic violence, go to the Domestic Abuse Women’s Network at www.dawnonline.org or call DAWN’s 24-hour crisis hotline at 425-656-7867.